'Life Lessons Gleaned from Confronting a Terminal Cancer Diagnosis'

Megan McClay, a 30-year-old woman living with terminal cancer, is urging people to appreciate what they have and prioritize spending time with loved ones. Megan was diagnosed with ocular melanoma, a type of eye cancer, that has reached stage four and spread to her liver, giving her an estimated two years to live. Despite the devastating prognosis, Megan has gained a new perspective on life, valuing family, her partner, and being present in the moment. Megan's story is one of many being shared at an exhibition called "What matters most?" at the Senedd Oriel in Cardiff Bay. The exhibition, created by photographer and filmmaker Ceridwen Hughes, aims to raise awareness about end-of-life care and spark conversations on the subject. Hughes was inspired by her own experience with her mother's cancer, where a lack of coordinated care left her feeling isolated and unable to provide the necessary support. By sharing personal stories through photographs and short films, the exhibition seeks to encourage policymakers to invest more in end-of-life care. Megan hopes that discussing these topics openly and regularly will initiate positive change. She emphasizes the need for realistic expectations and open communication with loved ones who may struggle to confront the difficult subject of her impending death. While Megan recognizes that two years may not seem long, she is undergoing immunotherapy and making plans with her local hospice, finding comfort in knowing that a support system will be in place for her partner and family after she is gone. Megan's partner, Dimitar Kashchiev, shares her sentiment and has found solace in cherishing the time they have together rather than focusing on the uncertain future. Though he is not yet fully accepting of what lies ahead, Dimitar documents their daily life and memories, preparing for the day when those memories will bring him comfort. Megan hopes to be remembered as a reminder to pause, appreciate the present, and prioritize meaningful connections over material possessions. The exhibition "What matters most?" is a collaboration between Same But Different, Marie Curie, and Hospice UK, supported by the National Lottery Community Fund, and will be on display until February 15th.